The Enneagram of Personality:
The Enneagram can be seen as a set of nine distinct personality types, with each number on the Enneagram denoting one type. It is common to find a little of yourself in all nine of the types, although one of them should stand out as being closest to yourself. This is your basic personality type.
–The Enneagram Institute*
JR's Enneagram:
Type Four in Brief
Fours are self-aware, sensitive, and reserved. They are emotionally honest, creative, and personal, but can also be moody and self-conscious. Withholding themselves from others due to feeling vulnerable and defective, they can also feel disdainful and exempt from ordinary ways of living. They typically have problems with melancholy, self-indulgence, and self-pity. At their Best: inspired and highly creative, they are able to renew themselves and transform their experiences. (emphasis added by JR)
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Basic Fear: That they have no identity or personal significance
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Basic Desire: To find themselves and their significance (to create an identity)
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Key Motivations: Want to express themselves and their individuality, to create and surround themselves with beauty, to maintain certain moods and feelings, to withdraw to protect their self-image, to take care of emotional needs before attending to anything else, to attract a "rescuer."
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FROM JR:
You'll have to confirm with my wife, but this seems a little too close for comfort.
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What's YOUR Enneagram type?
There are various places you can take the Enneagram test online. The price ranges from free up to $20 or more, depending on the level of detail you want from the resulting report. Since no one is paying me to send you to any particular site*, here's a random link with options: https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test.
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*The links on this page are offered as a service; I am neither compensated to include them here nor do they constitute a recommendation over any other site or company offering similar services.
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